For this blog, I would like to share about Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. This blog is an assignment that gave by my lovely lecturer , Mrs. Yuna 😊. Have you ever known about that? Not yet? Ok, I show you about the real book from the title above.
Due to this book has 13 chapter, I just wanna share and review chapter 5 only 😁. In chapter 5, I'll review about "Speaking Different Language". Why? Because I really interest about different language between men and women, women especially.
As we knew that Men and Women have different language when they're talking. Men are always say something appropriate with the men's think, but different with women. Women are sometime or often or always say something different with women's think. Right? 😅.
Please look at the picture below!
Female and male dictionary.
As you saw on the picture above, women has different meaning when they're talking something. For example when women say, "Leave me alone" its mean that men should to stay and don't go. Men has different with women. When men say, "Leave me alone" its mean that you should to go from men and leave him alone.
So, we can know that women are always use poetic license and use various superlatives, metaphors, and
generalizations when they are speaking. But, men use words literally when they are speaking. If man say, "I'm okay" its means that he is okay.
Women are always say words that using poetic and various supertlative or we can familiar with words "code". Women are always use a code to express their feelings. For example you can see the picture below!
When Men and Women Fix up problem.
When women have problems , she usually want to share her problem and share her feelings with her partner. Example from John in his book "Women think out loud, sharing their process of inner discovery with an interested listener. Even today, a woman often discovers what she wants to say through the process of just talking. This process of just letting thoughts flow freely and expressing them out loud helps her to tap into her intuition. This process is perfectly normal and especially necessary sometimes." We can conclude that women are always to share everything with theri partner to make their feelings better.
When men have problems, they usually choose to be quite. Men choose to keep his problem from other. Men thinks that he can fix his problem by himself and he doesn't want other people to interfere his problem. John gray gave an example on his book, "Women need to know that when a man says "I am OK" it is an short version of what he really meant, which is "I am OK because I can deal with this alone. I do not need any help. Please support me by not worrying about me. Trust that I can deal with it all by myself". So, women must understand about men's feelings.
Different meaning of silence between men and women.
That is different of silence between men and women . 😄😆
So, we can conclude that men and women must to be understand and respect each other. Men and women also have to be understand about the language of their partner, especially for men because women sometimes become complicated when they express their feelings. 😆 Respect each other can make the relationship better.
I think it's enough from me, thank you very much for reading my blog 😊. I'm really sorry for a lot of mistakes that I've wrote and for my poor english in this blog. You can give your comment for me below. 😊
Interesting review 😍
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